Update on Beth
Overall, Beth is doing much better and feeling much better. She has had several consecutive weeks of feeling strong and generally good. We are awaiting an immune function test to see how well her T-cells are performing.
Things on the “needs to improve” list include resumption of normal eating, reduction in throat mucus, and elimination of the last EBV “nodes.
- Eating: She is primarily using the ‘G-tube’ to eat with some attempts to eat normally but throat mucus continues to be an issue. Thankfully, through the G-tube she is getting all the calories and nutrients she needs.
- Throat mucus: After much examination by ENTs, infectious disease specialists, and the transplant doctors the consensus seems to be the mucus is from a fungus that likes to feed on the dead Epstein-Barr tissue which was most concentrated in her throat/nasal areas. It is improving … slowly.
- EBV: The last PET Scan showed that the “nodes” (or sites) are either gone or significantly smaller but there is still enough EBV present for the doctors to order another round of T-cell treatments (1 dose a week for 3 weeks).
Hurricane Irene is heading for NYC-area this weekend. Beth is not in an evacuation area but they are warning that the city could be without power for several days.
Finally, she will get to come home after Labor Day for about a week (still no crowds, etc.). In mid-September the doctors will reassess where she stands in relation to EBV and her immune function.
But the biggest and best news for us and the doctors is how well Beth feels and how strong she is — we walked almost 2 miles around Central Park last week! We still have challenges and risks remain on her road to recovery so we remain careful and prayerful … but we are moving in the right direction and seem to be picking up speed!!
Serving
Guest post by Executive Pastor Alfred Turley
1 Peter 4:7-11
7 The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray. 8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 9 Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. 10 Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
This weekend Matt taught on this passage specifically and how the church represents the realm of eternity on earth now. And in representing God, we see that each of us has been given gifts and talents, desires and dreams that God wants us to use to represent Him and His Son. Serving Him is supposed to be a joy and privilege, not something we do to earn points with Him or something we do to “be a better Christian.” God wants us to do it out of love and out of a response of gratitude for Him and for what He has done for us.
Serving in a church can be one of the most enriching and encouraging experiences we can know. There is something that happens when we steward what we are given, when we join up with others in God’s church, and when we allow Him to move in us and use us for His glory! It’s truly a recipe for blessing!
I have always been so amazed at all the gifting and talents each of us has. Some of us have a talent to imagine big and to put that imagination and creativity into reality. Some of us just thrive off of being around people and engaging in their lives and loving them. Some love being hospitable, and cooking and serving others physical needs. Some of us have wisdom and can help others make better decisions. Some people are natural leaders, and people readily trust their heart and their judgement in how they direct things. All of these talents and gifts are needed in the body of Christ, the Church! In my own life, I have found serving in Children’s Ministry and Student Ministry, and helping to lead small groups all to be amazing uses of what God has given me, and it gives me great joy to lay those gifts down for His use. It has been a wonderful ride to take what came from Him in the first place and give it back to Him. He has given us so much, and He has given us the life of His own Son, so giving back is the least we can do!
Serving has also been a place where I truly began to engage others and get to know people, and to have them come along side me and support me as well. I have had countless times when I came in great need of a friend and support, and got it every time. And there have been countless times when I have seen serving teams and small groups surround those in need and those hurting and bring healing through community and through the unconditional love of Christ. Those who have struggled to connect to the church relationally: get on a serving team, and get in a small group! You will be stepping joyfully into the open arms of a church ready to love you.
One of the most surprising things about serving has been how challenging it has been, and how it has pushed me to trust in God as never before! Loving each other unconditionally requires that we lean on God and on the power of His Spirit inside of us. So many times I have seen lives changed because a group of people went to God in their needs and His power came and worked a miracle! God wants to be the power that fuels our lives. Serving stretches us and pushes us to trust in Him and lean on Him often, and we grow because of this!
Serving in the church is a joy God wants for each of us. It is a place where He brings us together in loving and supportive community, united around the cause of His heart: reaching a lost and hurting world. God will use our service to grow us and stretch us in a good way, and He will use it to surround us with healthy love and support that will be there when life takes hard turns.
Serving in the local church, specifically Rock Bridge, has been a joy and a great blessing for me and for many others. Please pray and ask God to show you what gifts and talents you have that should be put to use! And take a step of faith! Serve on a team and get in a small group!
Membership Matters
Because God loves us and because He is honored when we make godly commitments, the Bible is clear that membership to a local church is the normal practice for a Christian. Scripture speaks of Christians being committed to a specific church leadership (Hebrews 13:17), to intentional meetings with each other (Hebrews 10:25; I Corinthians 11:17-18; Romans 16:5), to mutual accountability (Matthew 18:15-17; I Corinthians 5:1-13), and to being known as a serving member of a church (Romans 16:1; 16:3-16).
Clearly a commitment to a specific group of Christians (how we define membership) is expected and the normal practice in the New Testament and too many verses in Scripture could not be obeyed without a membership commitment. But are there other reasons for committed membership? Here are four:
1-Membership defines the team, enabling the team to be organized, efficient, and effective in fulfilling its mission. This makes sense in sports, the military, businesses, and even in our families. It also makes sense in the local church. There is a reason why banks want to see the “membership” of a church before giving churches loans — they are assessing the strength of organized and declared commitment.
2-Membership helps the elders protect the church from false teachings and unhealthy influences. (see Titus 1:9)
We require background checks for all volunteers that work with children and youth and rightfully so. Protecting them is extremely important. The Bible also mandates that the church be protected from false and incorrect teachings. Membership helps the elders ensure that the church body and those who teach it (children’s workers, small group leaders, etc.) adhere to sound biblical teaching. Unhealthy spiritual influences can wreck havoc on a person and in a church.
3-Membership defines the protective scope of the church. I don’t discipline my neighbors kids. I don’t feed them or clothe them either and they don’t sleep in my house. Why? Because they are not my kids. Christians need discipline, care, and at times provision. Membership defines where these things most readily and naturally occur. Membership is us giving permission for our church family to provide discipline, accountability, and care.
For example, there are certain sins and sinful tendencies that are part of my life story. Only in an environment of love, trust, and commitment can these sins be addressed and biblical accountability provided. This protects me from sin and its consequences as well as the witness of our church. The church by definition and by practice exists in part to protect one another from sin while protecting the overall “salt and light” witness of the church before the world. Membership defines the protective (and at times corrective) reach of the church.
4-The work of the universal, and eternal church will be advanced further and faster through committed members of healthy local churches. If every community had multiple healthy, biblical, Christ-centered churches and if every church had committed members, then more people would be saved and discipled, more money would be available to reach the world for Christ, and the church’s ‘light’ of hope would be brighter. When Christians act as if church were optional, hop from church-to-church, or withhold their full commitment, then the Body of Christ is weaker and the cause of Christ suffers.
Ask yourself: If every church had members as committed as you are, what would the future of Christianity be?
Update on Beth: Major Milestone
For months we’ve known Beth’s immune system needed to have “200″ T-Cells to be in the normal range and for her immune system to even be considered mature enough to protect her against most infections. Talk of returning home was always conditioned on the number “200″. Specific and frequent prayers were offered with the number “200″ in them.
TODAY WE LEARNED BETH HAS 251 T-CELLS!!!!!!!!!!
Praise God! Praise God! Praise God!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for praying so faithfully with us and for Beth!!
We are awaiting a test to determine if all of those T-cells are functioning properly; however, this obviously feels like we are entering the home stretch. No predictions yet on when Beth can return home … but this is MAJOR MILESTONE.
Small Groups
Guest post by Discipleship Pastor Brian Holt
We’re more technologically connected then ever before, and yet we’re lonelier than ever before. In “Social Isolation in America”, the authors write that, “while modern technology has made it possible to connect more frequently, email and text messaging do not lend themselves to intimate revelations or in-depth conversations. These are things that may be necessary to combat loneliness and isolation.” In other words, we’ve traded deep, meaningful connections with shallow, surface-level friendships through technology. We “know” more people, but we don’t know them as well – and that impacts us internally. We were created for community (see HERE), and the natural level of community that exists in our culture just isn’t cutting it. In order to thrive, we need others to love, support, and encourage us.
Small Groups are often misunderstood. To many, it sounds kind of lame. Why would I want to sit in a circle, hold hands, and tell everyone about my feelings? It sounds pretty awful. Thankfully, that’s not what small group is all about. In fact, if it were no one would go.
Small Group is so much more. Yes, small group is fun. You’ll have a blast meeting with each other every other week (or every week if you’re daring enough). The food is (usually) excellent. It’s an all-around good time.
But that’s not what makes small group so vital to a Christ follower. You can have friends and spend time with them anywhere. Small Group is vital because it allows for deliberate relationships centered on Jesus Christ. And those relationships help you grow!
To get involved in a Rock Bridge Small Group in Dalton or Calhoun, come to GroupLink at each campus on August 14th right after the 2nd service.
To get involved in a Rock Bridge Small Group in Chatsworth, stop by the Small Group booth in the lobby after both services.
Why Community?
The Bible says many things that are mind boggling and hard to understand. One of the most incredible is that human beings are made in the image of God. This truth immediately communicates to us how much we are valued and loved by God. But to fully grasp what being made in God’s image means, we must also understand more of Who God is.
Central to understanding God is knowing the doctrine of the Trinity, which simply means that God exists in three distinct personalities (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) yet is still one God with one purpose and one nature. The Trinity means that God has always existed in a community of love before we ever existed. The Trinity assures us of God’s love and His desire for a relationship with us. If there was no Trinity, we would be left to wonder, “Why did God actually create us?” The Trinity of God assures us that God’s initiative to create us came from an overflow of His own community and His desire to love.
Therefore, being made in the image of the triune God means in part that we belong in community with God and others. There is no escaping the fact that we are wired for community because we were wired by God who has eternally existed in community.
Sin has undeniable affected our wiring and made community more difficult and loving others much more challenging; however, the Gospel of Jesus Christ not only changes our eternal addresses, but also our earthly desires. Christ gives us the “want to” as we start wanting what God wants. God has always wanted us in community with Himself and with others (“It is not good for man to be alone“).
So as we continue talking about the Body of Christ in our new sermon series, we cannot miss how important community is to God because God is community. We cannot downplay the church and our connection to her as Christ’s body.If you want to take a step toward community, consider learning more about Rock Bridge small groups:
Weekly Rundown (7.31.2011)
- Closed out the 4-part series, Epic Fail, on the stumbles of first church leader, Peter. I really felt God move in me and our church during this series. And we saw numerous people make decisions for Christ, indicating salvation!
- I know of so many of us who are going through tough times and adversity. Everything from illneses to the economy to struggles with sin. Please ask for prayer and seek to participate in prayer with others through a small group or our monthly, First Wednesday service which is this week.
- A few staff members met me in Brooklyn, NY last week to attend the Brooklyn Tabernacle’s Tuesday night prayer service. God’s providence and power were so evident. 3000-4000 people fully focused on prayer with obvious passion for Christ was absolutely beautiful … a taste of heaven!
- Ukraine mission trip reported over 450 individual presentations of the Gospel with over 100 indications of first-time salvation!! WOW!!
- Some of our staff department heads and pastors are going on a strategic work retreat in a few weeks and we’d appreciate your prayers. We are committing the time to lots of prayer and discussions about everything (yes, everything!) in our church. We are going to a place with no internet and no cell coverage … unplugged from technology to plug into God!
- Got to marry two of the first students who participated in Rock Bridge Student Ministry this weekend … yes, I cried
- Beth is doing okay. The mucus issue in her throat, sinuses, and nasal passages is still unresolved, causing some nausea and making ‘normal’ eating problematic. We are asking for 3 very specific prayer requests:
- For the mucus issue to be resolved — healing, removal of excess mucus, & restoration of normal eating.
- For protection from infection and for EB virus to be completely gone (it’s in retreat but not fully gone yet).
- For 200 “T-cells”.
- 200 is the “magic number” because it means her immune system is strong/mature enough to offer adequate/better protection. This is the number that triggers steps toward her returning home, being able to be around more people, etc. As of last week, she is about 70% there.
The Rundown (7.25.2011)
I’m back in NYC for a few days with Beth after spending 2+ weeks at home. Beth & I continue to be humbled and blessed by your prayers and concern. We do feel like the big picture is much brighter as all the major problems and obstacles are resolving (leukemia in remission, EBV in full retreat); there are some lingering throat-mucus problems that cause eating-drinking issues and resulted in the G-tube. Overall, cautiously optimistic yet prayerfully vigilant!
- The Rock Bridge staff team is simply amazing. Almost every encounter I had over the past 2 weeks including praise for our staff: work ethic, passion, leadership, growth, etc.
- Had lots of great conversations about the direction and health of our church. We are all excited about what we see God doing in us and through us.
- Biggest area we are working to upgrade is how we connect new people into the church. Everything from first-time guests and salvation to group involvement and membership.
- I was able to connect with a few of our mission partners and I’m so excited about the “to the ends of the earth” work we get to be part of in our NW GA communities and across the oceans.
- Our work with Compassion International will continue to grow. 4 Rock Bridgers went to Ethiopia to meet our partner church in Awassa and were blown away by Compassion and by the opportunity we have to do something significant for Christ!
- The Living Water trip to Honduras to dig a water well was fantastic and another group goes in September. We anticipate 2-3 more trips in 2012.
- Our Ukraine trip just returned and the initial reports are exciting!!
- I’m very excited about our work with church planting through Launch Network. With 5 church planting “hubs” (and more to come) across the U.S. we are able to invest resources into planting healthy churches.
- On a more local level, we can welcome and begin to pray for Wesley Odum and Dynamic Church which will be launching in Chattanooga in 2012.
- Pray for Terrence Lester as God has called him to plant in Atlanta.
- Above all, I think many of us are being drawn by God to pray passionately, consistently, and specifically for Him to move. We are more aware than ever of our need for Him (apart from Him = nothing!!) and yet His desire to work through His people and churches.
Turning a Corner: The Latest on Beth
Been great to be back home and at Rock Bridge!! I love our church! Yet my heart is so with Beth in NYC, and as y’all have again shown me, your prayers are with her and our family in a “big” way. Thank you so much!!
Beth just finished “Skype-ing” with our boys and she is looking great and feeling stronger. She has had several good days in a row both in how she feels and what the doctors are observing. The mucus problem in her throat (which is making eating difficult) seems to be a result of a fungus that took root in the dead Epstein-Barr virus tissues (that thing causes problems even after it dies!). Thankfully, some infectious-disease specialists were able to pinpoint this likely culprit. So with some changes in her medicines, we are hopeful this latest challenge will be overcome soon. While we wait, the G-Tube is doing its job so Beth is getting nutrion and feeling better.
So we are cautiously optimistic that she is turning a corner. Her counts are very strong and there new signs (from her latest labs) that her immune system is maturing and getting closer to full capacity. However, we are not there yet, we must remain careful and vigilant … but we are very thankful for where we are today
A Hard and Hopeful Week from NYC
Whirlwind. Bitter. Sweet. Crazy. Tough. Long. Emotional. Doubting. Hoping.
That’s about how I would describe this week for our family.
On Tuesday, I flew up to NYC with our boys and our family was reunited for the first time in 7 months. Beth was thrilled just to watch them play and see how they had grown and changed.
However, Beth was still having trouble eating and drinking. As the week progressed she grew very weak and tired, requiring IV fluids at the hospital on Wednesday & Thursday. She started vomiting when she tried to swallow her medicines. We both realized this had the potential to become serious and that her struggle eating/drinking had gone on long enough. So on Friday morning we made the difficult decision to cut the boys visit short — I would fly them home, Beth would go to the hospital, and I would fly back to NYC late Friday night.
Beth was readmitted to the hospital Friday afternoon to get an “NG Tube” for feeding (pretty uncomfortable procedure). However, by the time I got back to the hospital around midnight Beth was already feeling and looking much better.
The eating troubles seem to be coming from a severe case of mucus literally streaming down the back of Beth’s throat and the cause is still somewhat unclear, although the doctors believe it is temporary and will resolve. She will receive a G-tube on Wednesday as part of a longer term/less invasive “eating” solution.
Also, a PET Scan was repeated on Wednesday and the results show that the Epstein-Barr virus is in full retreat. Most of the “nodes” are gone and the ones that remain are significantly smaller.
So while this week was not what we had hoped for with our boys, we have learned that our perspective cannot be limited to days or even weeks. And the bigger picture perspective is much brighter: leukemia is in remission, her bone marrow graft is strong, EBV is going away, she is finally getting the nutrition her body needs, our boys are doing great, and … most especially, the tomb of Jesus Christ is still empty!!